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Letters 07-27-2015

Next For Brownfields In regard to your recent piece on brownfield redevelopment in TC, the Randolph Street project appears to be proceeding without receiving its requested $600k in brownfield funding from the county. In response to this, the mayor is quoted as saying that the developer bought the property prior to performing an environmental assessment and had little choice but to now build it...

Defending Our Freedom This is in response to Sally MacFarlane Neal’s recent letter, “War Machines for Family Entertainment.” Wake Up! Make no mistake about it, we are at war! Even though the idiot we have for a president won’t accept the fact because he believes we can negotiate with Iran, etc., ISIS and their like make it very clear they intend to destroy the free world as we know it. If you take notice of the way are constantly destroying their own people, is that living...

What Is Far Left? Columnist Steve Tuttle, who so many lambaste as a liberal, considers Sen. Sanders a far out liberal “nearly invisible from the middle.” Has the middle really shifted that far right? Sanders has opposed endless war and the Patriot Act. Does Mr. Tuttle believe most of our citizens praise our wars and the positive results we have achieved from them? Is supporting endless war or giving up our civil liberties middle of the road...

Parking Corrected Stephen Tuttle commented on parking in the July 13 Northern Express. As Director of the Traverse City Downtown Development Authority, I feel compelled to address a couple key issues. But first, I acknowledge that  there is some consternation about parking downtown. As more people come downtown served by less parking, the pressure on what parking we have increases. Downtown serves a county with a population of 90,000 and plays host to over three million visitors annually...

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George Foster - March 11th, 2004
The Largest Group of Second-Class Citizens in History
When George W. Bush calls marriage between a man and woman “the most fundamental institution of civilization“, he might be correct. It may also be the most fundamentally dysfunctional institution in this country.
The president ought to know. As an ex-alcoholic with daughters and nieces in and out of trouble, the Bush clan isn‘t that much different that the Gores and most other families.
Never having taken the trip down the aisle, myself, it is obvious that I am far from an expert on the topic of wedded bliss. Yet, it does not take a Rhodes scholar to realize that much is amiss in Leave It To Beaver land. I hate to be judgmental, but for you married types: don‘t try to con me - most of you haven‘t a clue about achieving a successful marriage.
Even if you can‘t admit it, the numbers don‘t lie. First of all, the divorce rate in this country is a scandal. On the average, one out of two marriages break up. Adultery, spousal battering and child abuse rates are rising. Marriage is the lifestyle that we single people are supposed to be striving to attain some day? These are the family values that married people espouse so patronizingly? Give me solo values any day.
Statistics aside, it has been my personal experience that getting married should something to take very, very, very seriously before... running. More often that not, my dreamingly, romantic friends who have taken the big plunge end up reporting a long list of matrimonial disasters that no one could ever make up. It is jarring when some of the enduring marriages, that I have admired, end in bitter divorces. Maybe a constitutional amendment to outlaw marriage is a good idea -ALL MARRIAGE, that is.
Actually, it is largely a secret to married Americans, but singles in this country are the objects of unprecedented discrimination at this time. Corporate benefit plans often benefit married employees over singles. Insurers give lower rates to married couples. Health clubs and auto clubs give discounted rates to married members.
There has been much in the news about the marriage penalty in the tax code, recently. Overwhelming, the tax code is set up favoring married taxpayers. There are far more taxpayers that take advantage of the marriage “bonus“ by filing as joint taxpayers than the marriage “penalty“ that affects relatively few. Also, unmarried taxpayers can have over 50% of their estates gobbled up by the federal government upon death, but the same estates can be left tax-free to a surviving spouse.
A 1997 study by the U.S. General Accounting Office counted 1049 federal laws where marriage was a consideration. And on and on and on.
As the largest minority group ever assembled in this country, we singles won‘t continue to be second class citizens long. There are 86 million unmarried adults in the U.S. We make up almost half of the adult population and are growing into the majority in the near future. By contrast, in 1950 only 20% of American adults were unmarried.
You married couples can revel in restricting who is allowed to get married for the time being. Soon, singles will be running the show. When that occurs, don‘t be surprised if you find yourself subject to laws that restrict who is allowed to become single.









 
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