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Letters 02-08-2016

Less Ageism, Please The January 4 issue of this publication proved to me that there are some sensible voices of reason in our community regarding all things “inter-generational.” I offer a word of thanks to Elizabeth Myers. I too have worked hard for what I’ve earned throughout my years in the various positions I’ve held. While I too cannot speak for each millennial, brash generalizations about a lack of work ethic don’t sit well with me...Joe Connolly, Traverse City

Now That’s an Escalation I just read the letter from Greg and his defense of the AR15. The letter started with great information but then out of nowhere his opinion went off the rails. “The government wants total gun control and then confiscation; then the elimination of all Constitutional rights.” Wait... what?! To quote the great Ron Burgundy, “Well, that escalated quickly!”

Healthy Eating and Exercise for Children Healthy foods and exercise are important for children of all ages. It is important for children because it empowers them to do their best at school and be able to do their homework and study...

Mascots and Harsh Native American Truths The letter from the Choctaw lady deserves an answer. I have had a gutful of the whining about the fate of the American Indian. The American Indians were the losers in an imperial expansion; as such, they have, overall, fared much better than a lot of such losers throughout history. Everything the lady complains about in the way of what was done by the nasty, evil Whites was being done by Indians to other Indians long before Europeans arrived...

Snyder Must Go I believe it’s time. It’s time for Governor Snyder to go. The FBI, U.S. Postal Inspection Service and the EPA Criminal Investigation Division are now investigating the Flint water crisis that poisoned thousands of people. Governor Snyder signed the legislation that established the Emergency Manager law. Since its inception it has proven to be a dismal failure...

Erosion of Public Trust Let’s look at how we’ve been experiencing global warming. Between 1979 and 2013, increases in temperature and wind speeds along with more rain-free days have combined to stretch fire seasons worldwide by 20 percent. In the U.S., the fire seasons are 78 days longer than in the 1970s...

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George Foster - March 11th, 2004
The Largest Group of Second-Class Citizens in History
When George W. Bush calls marriage between a man and woman “the most fundamental institution of civilization“, he might be correct. It may also be the most fundamentally dysfunctional institution in this country.
The president ought to know. As an ex-alcoholic with daughters and nieces in and out of trouble, the Bush clan isn‘t that much different that the Gores and most other families.
Never having taken the trip down the aisle, myself, it is obvious that I am far from an expert on the topic of wedded bliss. Yet, it does not take a Rhodes scholar to realize that much is amiss in Leave It To Beaver land. I hate to be judgmental, but for you married types: don‘t try to con me - most of you haven‘t a clue about achieving a successful marriage.
Even if you can‘t admit it, the numbers don‘t lie. First of all, the divorce rate in this country is a scandal. On the average, one out of two marriages break up. Adultery, spousal battering and child abuse rates are rising. Marriage is the lifestyle that we single people are supposed to be striving to attain some day? These are the family values that married people espouse so patronizingly? Give me solo values any day.
Statistics aside, it has been my personal experience that getting married should something to take very, very, very seriously before... running. More often that not, my dreamingly, romantic friends who have taken the big plunge end up reporting a long list of matrimonial disasters that no one could ever make up. It is jarring when some of the enduring marriages, that I have admired, end in bitter divorces. Maybe a constitutional amendment to outlaw marriage is a good idea -ALL MARRIAGE, that is.
Actually, it is largely a secret to married Americans, but singles in this country are the objects of unprecedented discrimination at this time. Corporate benefit plans often benefit married employees over singles. Insurers give lower rates to married couples. Health clubs and auto clubs give discounted rates to married members.
There has been much in the news about the marriage penalty in the tax code, recently. Overwhelming, the tax code is set up favoring married taxpayers. There are far more taxpayers that take advantage of the marriage “bonus“ by filing as joint taxpayers than the marriage “penalty“ that affects relatively few. Also, unmarried taxpayers can have over 50% of their estates gobbled up by the federal government upon death, but the same estates can be left tax-free to a surviving spouse.
A 1997 study by the U.S. General Accounting Office counted 1049 federal laws where marriage was a consideration. And on and on and on.
As the largest minority group ever assembled in this country, we singles won‘t continue to be second class citizens long. There are 86 million unmarried adults in the U.S. We make up almost half of the adult population and are growing into the majority in the near future. By contrast, in 1950 only 20% of American adults were unmarried.
You married couples can revel in restricting who is allowed to get married for the time being. Soon, singles will be running the show. When that occurs, don‘t be surprised if you find yourself subject to laws that restrict who is allowed to become single.









 
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