Letters 10-24-2016

It’s Obama’s 1984 Several editions ago I concluded a short letter to the editor with an ominous rhetorical flourish: “Welcome to George Orwell’s 1984 and the grand opening of the Federal Department of Truth!” At the time I am sure most of the readers laughed off my comments as right-wing hyperbole. Shame on you for doubting me...

Gun Bans Don’t Work It is said that mass violence only happens in the USA. A lone gunman in a rubber boat, drifted ashore at a popular resort in Tunisia and randomly shot and killed 38 mostly British and Irish tourists. Tunisian gun laws, which are among the most restrictive in the world, didn’t stop this mass slaughter. And in January 2015, two armed men killed 11 and wounded 11 others in an attack on the French satirical magazine Charlie Hebdo. French gun laws didn’t stop these assassins...

Scripps’ Good Deed No good deed shall go unpunished! When Dan Scripps was the 101st District State Representative, he introduced legislation to prevent corporations from contaminating (e.g. fracking) or depleting (e.g. Nestle) Michigan’s water table for corporate profit. There are no property lines in the water table, and many of us depend on private wells for abundant, safe, clean water. In the subsequent election, Dan’s opponents ran a negative campaign almost solely on the misrepresentation that Dan’s good deed was a government takeover of your private water well...

Political Definitions As the time to vote draws near it’s a good time to check into what you stand for. According to Dictionary.com the meanings for liberal and conservative are as follows:

Liberal: Favorable to progress or reform as in political or religious affairs.

Conservative: Disposed to preserve existing conditions, institutions, etc., or to restore traditions and limit change...

Voting Takes A Month? Hurricane Matthew hit the Florida coast Oct. 6, over three weeks before Election Day. Bob Ross (Oct. 17th issue) posits that perhaps evacuation orders from Governor Scott may have had political motivations to diminish turnout and seems to praise Hillary Clinton’s call for Gov. Scott to extend Florida’s voter registration deadline due to evacuations...

Clinton Foundation Facts Does the Clinton Foundation really spend a mere 10 percent (per Mike Pence) or 20 percent (per Reince Priebus) of its money on charity? Not true. Charity Watch gives it an A rating (the same as it gives the NRA Foundation) and says it spends 88 percent on charitable causes, and 12 percent on overhead. Here is the source of the misunderstanding: The Foundation does give only a small percentage of its money to charitable organizations, but it spends far more money directly running a number of programs...

America Needs Change Trump supports our constitution, will appoint judges that will keep our freedoms safe. He supports the partial-birth ban; Hillary voted against it. Regardless of how you feel about Trump, critical issues are at stake. Trump will increase national security, monitor refugee admissions, endorse our vital military forces while fighting ISIS. Vice-presidential candidate Mike Pence will be an intelligent asset for the country. Hillary wants open borders, increased government regulation, and more demilitarization at a time when we need strong military defenses...

My Process For No I will be voting “no” on Prop 3 because I am supportive of the process that is in place to review and approve developments. I was on the Traverse City Planning Commission in the 1990s and gained an appreciation for all of the work that goes into a review. The staff reviews the project and makes a recommendation. The developer then makes a presentation, and fellow commissioners and the public can ask questions and make comments. By the end of the process, I knew how to vote for a project, up or down. This process then repeats itself at the City Commission...

Regarding Your Postcard If you received a “Vote No” postcard from StandUp TC, don’t believe their lies. Prop 3 is not illegal. It won’t cost city taxpayers thousands of dollars in legal bills or special elections. Prop 3 is about protecting our downtown -- not Munson, NMC or the Commons -- from a future of ugly skyscrapers that will diminish the very character of our downtown...

Vote Yes It has been suggested that a recall or re-election of current city staff and Traverse City Commission would work better than Prop 3. I disagree. A recall campaign is the most divisive, costly type of election possible. Prop 3, when passed, will allow all city residents an opportunity to vote on any proposed development over 60 feet tall at no cost to the taxpayer...

Yes Vote Explained A “yes” vote on Prop 3 will give Traverse City the right to vote on developments over 60 feet high. It doesn’t require votes on every future building, as incorrectly stated by a previous letter writer. If referendums are held during general elections, taxpayers pay nothing...

Beware Trump When the country you love have have served for 33 years is threatened, you have an obligation and a duty to speak out. Now is the time for all Americans to speak out against a possible Donald Trump presidency. During the past year Trump has been exposed as a pathological liar, a demagogue and a person who is totally unfit to assume the presidency of our already great country...

Picture Worth 1,000 Words Nobody disagrees with the need for affordable housing or that a certain level of density is dollar smart for TC. The issue is the proposed solution. If you haven’t already seen the architect’s rendition for the site, please Google “Pine Street Development Traverse City”...

Living Wage, Not Tall Buildings Our community deserves better than the StandUp TC “vote no” arguments. They are not truthful. Their yard signs say: “More Housing. Less Red Tape. Vote like you want your kids to live here.” The truth: More housing, but for whom? At what price..

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A Family Within a Family

Nancy Sundstrom - April 25th, 2002
Take a father, a son, and a stepmother. Add in a brother and sister from a different clan, and another young man, for good measure.
In the case of the Low family and the three young charges they‘re mentoring as part of Northwest Michigan‘s Big Brothers and Big Sisters program, these are the key ingredients in the recipe for a family within a family.
The Lows are something quite unique, as well as a remarkable testament to the effectiveness of the program, which matches up disadvantaged youth with a man or woman who makes a commitment to spend time with them.
Patriarch Peter, V.P. of Operations for Salomon Smith Barney in Traverse City, was the first to come on board, deciding to become a Big Brother in August 2000 and getting matched up with Dominick.
Peter‘s son Andy, a financial advisor with Merrill Lynch who is married to a school teacher in Petoskey, independently but simultaneously also became a Big Brother one month later, to Jesse, something that greatly surprised and delighted the two men when they made the discovery shortly thereafter.
Peter‘s wife Carol, an employee at Corbin Design in downtown Traverse City, officially became a Big Sister early this winter after having been introduced to and spending some time with Cassey, Dominick‘s real-life sister.

Erin Edwards, Chief Executive Officer of Big Brothers and Big Sisters of Northwestern Michigan, which serves nearly 500 children in a nine-county area that stretches from Wexford to Emmett, says that was has happened to this now-extended family “is more extraordinary than it is normal.“
“The Low family has proven to be an incredibly given and dedicated group who have made a tremendous difference in the lives of three wonderful young people,“ said Edwards. “Like everyone, they are very busy people, but they‘ve included these kids in so many facets of their lives, and it‘s pretty significant that they‘ve been involved about three times longer than the average volunteer. That shows it‘s come to mean as much to them as it has to the kids.“
Both Andy and Peter echo that sentiment.
“You might start out with the idea that this is a way to help the world one kid at a time, but somewhere along the way, I knew that spending time with Jesse was something I was really looking forward to,“ shared Andy. “I‘ve come to count on that weekly visit.“ Adds Peter, “It‘s a pretty long list when I start adding up all the ways Dominick and Cassey give to me and Carol. They count on us, but we‘re just as blessed to have them in our lives. I believe the impact on both is quite immeasurable.“

Andy initially settled on being a Big Brother after a flyer arrived at his business. He had known about the program for some time and believed in its mission, and since he and his wife don‘t have children at the current time, he made the commitment. He says that in the beginning, it took a little work to forge a relationship with Jesse, who is now 10, and that their early meetings usually involved their having lunch at the school cafeteria or working on homework together.
The budding friendship didn‘t go unnoticed by Jesse‘s peers, especially when they saw Andy, who is 6‘ 7‘‘ tall and almost always wears a business suit, strolling down the hall with Jesse, who came about to his knees.
As time went on, the two became a more familiar sight throughout the Petoskey community, and they now spend time working on a wide variety of projects, from building a birdhouse to playing basketball, or going out to dinner if Jesse has earned a reward for doing something special, such as getting good grades. Jesse has also become comfortable spending time in the Low home, and Andy says it always makes him smile to see the young boy bound through his front door, raid the refrigerator, and then settle in, looking forward to what the two are going to do next.

Peter, too, had been considering becoming a Big Brother for some time, primarily because his children had grown and graduated from college, and he missed “having some youth racing around the house.“ He says that he was quite taken with Dominick from the onset, and describes him as an “exceptional and amazing young man.“ Dominick, now 11, is quite close to his sister Cassey, 9, and on occasion, they would bring her along to join in on the fun, like swimming at the Park Place or coming over to the house for make-your-own-pizza night.
As Carol got to know Cassey, it just seemed like a natural fit for her to become a Big Sister. While the guys and gals spend a fair amount of time off on their own, the foursome‘s getting together has become something to which everyone looks forward. Peter and Dominick might tackle building a model while Carol and Cassey do a craft, and then all challenge each other in a game. Whatever the activity, Peter says that the siblings have very much come to count on their time with their Big Brother and Sister, and that they‘ve received unexpected dividends in return.
“Carol and I are doing a lot of stuff we might not have, like going biking and kayaking, and it‘s because of what these two wonderful youngsters have brought into our lives,“ he explained. “They‘ve bring a sense of youth and vitality into our home, and absolutely have taught us as much as we ever thought we‘d teach them. This is a second-time-around for helping raise kids, and there really aren‘t words to describe how amazing it‘s been. I‘m glad I took the time to do it.“

Andy says that if he has any advice for someone considering Big Brothers and Big Sisters, it‘s to just take the plunge and trust that no matter how busy you believe you are, the rewards far outweigh the small expenditure of time it takes to make a significant difference in the life of a child.
“Everyone‘s time is limited, but it‘s the simple things that make the bonds strong. Once you see the progress you‘re making in a kid knowing they can count on you or opening up to you, there‘s a sense of satisfaction that is so much greater than you ever could imagine,“ he concluded. “Just being there for them and being able to mentor them is a benefit all on its own.“

For information on becoming a Big Brother or Big Sister, call 1-800-968-2447, or visit the website at www.bbbsnwmi.org.

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