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Letters 10-27-2014

Paging Doctor Dan: The doctor’s promise to repeal Obamacare reminds me of the frantic restaurant owner hurrying to install an exhaust fan after the kitchen burns down. He voted 51 times to replace the ACA law; a colossal waste of money and time. It’s here to stay and he has nothing to replace it.

Evolution Is Real Science: Breathtaking inanity. That was the term used by Judge John Jones III in his elegant evisceration of creationist arguments attempting to equate it to evolutionary theory in his landmark Kitzmiller vs. Dover Board of Education decision in 2005.

U.S. No Global Police: Steven Tuttle in the October 13 issue is correct: our military, under the leadership of the President (not the Congress) is charged with protecting the country, its citizens, and its borders. It is not charged with  performing military missions in other places in the world just because they have something we want (oil), or we don’t like their form of government, or we want to force them to live by the UN or our rules.

Graffiti: Art Or Vandalism?: I walk the [Grand Traverse] Commons frequently and sometimes I include the loop up to the cistern just to go and see how the art on the cistern has evolved. Granted there is the occasional gross image or word but generally there is a flurry of color.

NMEAC Snubbed: Northern Michigan Environmental Action Council (NMEAC) is the Grand Traverse region’s oldest grassroots environmental advocacy organization. Preserving the environment through citizen action and education is our mission.

Vote, Everyone: Election Day on November 4 is fast approaching, and now is the time to make a commitment to vote. You may be getting sick of the political ads on TV, but instead, be grateful that you live in a free country with open elections. Take the time to learn about the candidates by contacting your county parties and doing research.

Do Fluoride Research: Hydrofluorosilicic acid, H2SiF6, is a byproduct from the production of fertilizer. This liquid, not environmentally safe, is scrubbed from the chimney of the fertilizer plant, put into containers, and shipped. Now it is a ‘product’ added to the public drinking water.

Meet The Homeless: As someone who volunteers for a Traverse City organization that works with homeless people, I am appalled at what is happening at the meetings regarding the homeless shelter. The people fighting this shelter need to get to know some homeless families. They have the wrong idea about who the homeless are.

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Then Changes

Robert Downes - May 10th, 2007
Heard that a couple of teens got kicked out of a local high school the other day for getting caught with alcohol. Hope they pull through... And did you hear about the first-grader who was kicked out of school for pointing his finger at some kids and yelling “bang“?
It made me think that we sure judge kids by a harsher standard today than when I was a carefree young terrorist.
Times sure have changed, by cracky. Back when teenagers ruled the world in the late 60s, the administrators at my high school were busy creating an experimental smoking lounge for students so we wouldn’t have to go outside to smoke. The experiment lasted less than a year, but still, in that social climate I can’t imagine any of our principals would have expelled a student for getting caught with a beer.
Looking in the rearview mirror from the age of Klebold and Harris, I shiver to think of how we parents would have been judged if today’s standards of zero tolerance were shipped to the days of our youth in the Wayback Machine.
In the 6th grade, for instance, no one thought it was odd to bring a jack knife to my elementary school in rural Grand Rapids. How else would you play mumbly-peg at recess?
A shotgun and bow and arrows were part of my arsenal as a 12-year-old, with most of my pals owning some sort of rifle or .20 gauge. Mad magazine was considered far more dangerous by my teachers, and sure bait for confiscation.
On the other hand, it never crossed anyone’s mind to bring their .22 to school and blow away their classmates. Problems with bullies were solved by shoving matches or avoidance.
As 15-year-olds, my friends and I enjoyed making homemade gunpowder by the pound and blowing up cans of the stuff out in the driveway in suburban Royal Oak. Our stuff was too primitive to get to the level of any IED-style explosions, but we got some spectacular flares and lift-offs. No one saw fit to call the cops — it was just another group of kids blowing stuff up.
Today, we‘d be doing hard time in prison, with the news in all the papers.
And back then, the corner store was happy to sell us bottles of Boone’s Farm apple wine at the age of 16, no questions asked.
Was it too much apple wine in our teen years that prompted my befuddled generation to elect the likes of George W. Bush? Interesting theory...
Today, when kids are expelled from school for packing nail files, it’s because we live in the shadow of Cho Seung-Hui, much the same way the hippies got dipped in blood by Charles Manson.
But it does seem strange.
What caused the shift from a freer society to one where zero tolerance has become a necessity?
You can truck out the usual suspects: Today, one half of all first weddings end in divorce, often with children in tow (that’s up from about 29% of marriages in 1970). And one million children are born out-of-wedlock into fatherless families each year. Violent video games and films desensitize kids while encouraging distant responses, such as shootings. And, according to the Christian Science Monitor, nearly one-third of American high school students drop out, with that level rising to almost half of all minority students. Also, perhaps kids are crazed on junk food, preservatives, sugar and the sedentary lifestyle.
Check all of the above for why kids are kept on a short leash these days.
Add to that my own humble theory. Over the past 100 years, the status of children has diminished in America from useful members of the family to little more than pets. Who wouldn’t feel a sense of uselessness, despair and alienation?
My father and mother were required to work as farm hands in their youth, supporting their families as had been the case for hundreds of thousands of years of human evolution. They were vital contributors to the family’s survival, and there was a sense of self-esteem in that knowledge, which is missing today.
Today, contributing to a family’s success is rarely the case for children, who are parked in front of the TV set and left to their imaginations.
Sigmund Freud said that work and love are the prerequisites for sanity. Work & Love... that’s what you need to keep from going insane. Yet our affluent society has drifted far from the need for children to work for their family’s success.
A teacher recently wrote that many students in her class have feelings of depression and despair, and some have even attempted suicide. Isn’t that a logical consequence of feeling useless and unneeded, with no responsibilities to be proud of?
If you don’t keep a pet well-exercised, it can over-eat, get spoiled, demand attention, act up and make a mess. Is tightening the leash the best alternative?
Obviously, we can’t go back to kids doing farm chores or collecting firewood and berries to support the tribe. The “work” we set for children is doing well in school. The trick for parents is to convince their kids that their success in school isn’t just for their own good — it’s vital for the whole family’s success.


 
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