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Letters 10-27-2014

Paging Doctor Dan: The doctor’s promise to repeal Obamacare reminds me of the frantic restaurant owner hurrying to install an exhaust fan after the kitchen burns down. He voted 51 times to replace the ACA law; a colossal waste of money and time. It’s here to stay and he has nothing to replace it.

Evolution Is Real Science: Breathtaking inanity. That was the term used by Judge John Jones III in his elegant evisceration of creationist arguments attempting to equate it to evolutionary theory in his landmark Kitzmiller vs. Dover Board of Education decision in 2005.

U.S. No Global Police: Steven Tuttle in the October 13 issue is correct: our military, under the leadership of the President (not the Congress) is charged with protecting the country, its citizens, and its borders. It is not charged with  performing military missions in other places in the world just because they have something we want (oil), or we don’t like their form of government, or we want to force them to live by the UN or our rules.

Graffiti: Art Or Vandalism?: I walk the [Grand Traverse] Commons frequently and sometimes I include the loop up to the cistern just to go and see how the art on the cistern has evolved. Granted there is the occasional gross image or word but generally there is a flurry of color.

NMEAC Snubbed: Northern Michigan Environmental Action Council (NMEAC) is the Grand Traverse region’s oldest grassroots environmental advocacy organization. Preserving the environment through citizen action and education is our mission.

Vote, Everyone: Election Day on November 4 is fast approaching, and now is the time to make a commitment to vote. You may be getting sick of the political ads on TV, but instead, be grateful that you live in a free country with open elections. Take the time to learn about the candidates by contacting your county parties and doing research.

Do Fluoride Research: Hydrofluorosilicic acid, H2SiF6, is a byproduct from the production of fertilizer. This liquid, not environmentally safe, is scrubbed from the chimney of the fertilizer plant, put into containers, and shipped. Now it is a ‘product’ added to the public drinking water.

Meet The Homeless: As someone who volunteers for a Traverse City organization that works with homeless people, I am appalled at what is happening at the meetings regarding the homeless shelter. The people fighting this shelter need to get to know some homeless families. They have the wrong idea about who the homeless are.

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On the Road in India

Robert Downes - November 29th, 2007
A fruit bat the size of a cocker spaniel wheels overhead in broad daylight and flaps off into a grove of coconut palms on lazy wings. At my feet are rice fields stretching to the horizon and the canals of the Kerala Backwaters in southern India, also known as the Country of God.
After three weeks of kicking around southern India as one of four backpackers, I’ve gotten used to the place. It would be a stretch to say that India has “cast its spell” on me, but I have learned to see less of the trash and hassles, and to focus more on the colorful people, towering Hindu temples and lush scenery in this land of one billion souls.

So, here are some impressions of India from your humble correspondent after 1,000 miles on the road:

Did you know that many Hindus celebrate Christmas? It’s because they have 333 million gods in their religion, so it’s a cinch to add Jesus, Virgin Mary and Santa Claus to the mix as an excuse to celebrate.

Part of the fun of traveling rough is we ride the third-class sleeper trains. There are six hard bunks piled three-high in a compartment the size of a mini-van. You jam in all your gear and sit on a bunk, sharing with the Indian family across from you.
Also a hoot are the dusty, junky, clunker buses that seem to be held together with chicken wire. Most of these were considered wrecks 20 years ago when cities in Europe passed on their cast-offs to India. On yesterday’s ride, the driver’s spring-popping seat was held together with twine. He stayed alert by chewing a mild narcotic known as khat, mixed with fresh tobacco leaf. A bonus was the DVD film in the Hindi language, screeching at top volume through blown speakers on the bus’ TV.
The worst way to travel is by private car, doing the Dance of Death on the Highways of Hell. We whipsaw in and out of traffic, passing straight into the path of oncoming cars, buses, trucks and motorbikes, with all doing the same. This means thousands of near-misses on every drive. My sphincter is tied in a knot and my toes are permanently curled in fright...

You’ve got friends everywhere in India. Walk down any street and you’ll hear these words, repeated in a mournful monotone:
“Hullo. Hullo my fren’. Come see my shop, my fren’. Jus’ loook, no buy. Jus’ loook, my fren’.”
Indian hustlers all believe that tourists are automatic shopping robots. They’re right of course, but one can only buy so many statues of Shiva or ankle bracelets. My only consolation is knowing that it’s far worse in the “tourist bubble” of Rajasthan in northern India, which is said to be a perfect hell of hassle.

Strange, but true: 85% of all marriages in India are still arranged by your parents.
While having dinner at a local guide’s home in Mysore, he proudly told us of his daughter’s recent marriage. It seems that he had heard through the grapevine that a rich man’s son needed a wife. He put his daughter forward -- a lovely girl -- and she was interviewed by the young man’s parents. Then, he and his wife met the prospective groom.
Finally, the young couple got to meet -- IN PERSON! -- in his dining room, with both sets of parents looking on. They even got to talk for an hour alone to see if they were a match.
Then, with a flourish of his hand, the young man said, “I’ll take her!” and the deal was done.
Ah, but first, the girl’s father had to come up with 800,000 rupees as a dowry -- that’s $20,000 U.S. to us, but more like half a million bucks to a lower middle class family in India. No problem -- he simply called his relatives all over the world and told them of the golden opportunity his daughter had to marry a rich man’s son. The money flowed in.
The wedding included 4,500 guests -- not unusual in India where even middlin’ folks invite 2,000 or so. The newlyweds went to live at his mamma and daddy’s house, as all Indian couples do, to get to know the perfect stranger they’ll be spending the rest of their lives with.
As for the dowry, the groom’s parents keep the cash, and the bride keeps the gold jewelry “just in case” things don’t work out. A married woman who doesn’t wear heaps of gold jewelry is laughed at on the streets of India.

But what of the wedding night, you say? No worries -- all Hindu temples are carved with at least some of the 184 sexual positions of the Kama Sutra (literally, “sex techniques”). This is so all teenage boys and girls will know how to enjoy their love-lives when they marry.
The Hindus don’t have our uptight Calvinist/Puritan tradition which teaches that sex is “dirty.” They consider sex to be a gift from God and want to make sure their kids are doing it right. Imagine this graphic sex guide on the walls of your local church.
On the other hand, the people of India are incredible prudes: both dating and premarital sex are unheard of, and even kissing is taboo in the syrupy, romantic films of Bollywood. How this squares with the kinky temple carvings, I haven’t a clue.

It’s great to be able to watch Jay Leno and The Tonight Show on TV in India, providing you don’t mind seeing the shows from 2003. I caught an interview with Britney Spears in which she had just broken up with Justin Timberlake and was on top of the world.

You never know when you’ll meet an elephant in India. There are many out in the country, but I’ve also met several on the city streets and inside a Hindu temple that was the size of a baseball stadium.
I’ve been thrilled each time -- actually, more like electrified -- these huge creatures have eyes which shine with intelligence and they’re as friendly as pet dogs.
In downtown Pondicherry, one gave me a blessing outside the Temple of Ganesh, the elephant-headed god of good luck. His body was painted with sacred markings and the smell of incense filled the air. I placed a rupee coin in the nostrils of its rough, hairy trunk and bowed as it stroked my head for good luck.
That blessing is working so far, except for my tendency to explode from both ends at times, if you know what I mean. Our band of backpackers all came down with cases of projectile vomiting from different bugs than we’re used to in the food and water. It’s not much fun being sick, combined with the constant heat, crowds, traffic, pollution, grime and hassles of traveling in India, I assure you.

Speaking of which, if you want to get the people of India in stitches (or gagging) at a restaurant, then go ahead and eat your food with your left hand. This of course, is the “bathroom hand” in Asia, where they swab the “lower deck” with a splash of water and scrub with their fingers.
Many people eat with their fingers here, which involves rolling a gooey ball of rice, dripping with curry sauce and chunks of fish, chicken or eggplant, and popping it in your mouth. ALWAYS with the right hand, of course.

After two-and-a-half months of constant travel on my way around the world, I’m looking forward to kicking back in Goa, the beach party capital of this half of the planet, where thousands of kids from Europe and Australia flock for all-night raves, rubbing elbows with their jet-setting parents. Will let you know how it goes... Namaste.
 
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