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Letters 08-31-2015

Inalienable Rights This is a response to the “No More State Theatre” in your August 24th edition. I think I will not be the only response to this pathetic and narrow-minded letter that seems rather out of place in the northern Michigan that I know. To think we will not be getting your 25 cents for the movie you refused to see, but more importantly we will be without your “two cents” on your thoughts of a marriage at the State Theatre...

Enthusiastically Democratic Since I was one of the approximately 160 people present at when Senator Debbie Stabenow spoke on August 14 in Charlevoix, I was surprised to read in a letter to Northern Express that there was a “rather muted” response to Debbie’s announcement that she has endorsed Hillary Clinton for president...

Not Hurting I surely think the State Theatre will survive not having the homophobic presence of Colleen Smith and her family attend any matinees. I think “Ms.” Smith might also want to make sure that any medical personnel, bank staff, grocery store staff, waiters and/or waitress, etc. are not homosexual before accepting any service or product from them...

Stay Home I did not know whether to laugh or cry when I read the letter of the extremely homophobic, “disgusted” writer. She now refuses to patronize the State Theatre because she evidently feels that its confines have been poisoned by the gay wedding ceremony held there...

Keep Away In response to Colleen Smith of Cadillac who refused to bring her family to the State Theatre because there was a gay wedding there: Keep your 25 cents and your family out of Traverse City...

Celebrating Moore And A Theatre I was 10 years old when I had the privilege to see my first film at the State Theatre. I will never forget that experience. The screen was almost the size of my bedroom I shared with my older sister. The bursting sounds made me believe I was part of the film...

Outdated Thinking This letter is in response to Colleen Smith. She made public her choice to no longer go to the State Theater due to the fact that “some homosexuals” got married there. I’m not outraged by her choice; we don’t need any more hateful, self-righteous bigots in our town. She can keep her 25 cents...

Mackinac Pipeline Must Be Shut Down Crude oil flowing through Enbridge’s 60-yearold pipeline beneath the Mackinac Straits and the largest collection of fresh water on the planet should be a serious concern for every resident of the USA and Canada. Enbridge has a very “accident” prone track record...

Your Rights To Colleen, who wrote about the State Theatre: Let me thank you for sharing your views; I think most of us are well in support of the first amendment, because as you know- it gives everyone the opportunity to express their opinions. I also wanted to thank Northern Express for not shutting down these types of letters right at the source but rather giving the community a platform for education...

No Role Model [Fascinating Person from last week’s issue] Jada quoted: “I want to be a role model for girls who are interested in being in the outdoors.” I enjoy being in the outdoors, but I don’t want to kill animals for trophy...

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Advice from a recent grad

Erin Cowell - August 11th, 2008
There are already back-to-school signs in the store windows. But for the first time in 19 years, I don’t have to pay attention to those signs – my God, 19 years. It’s hard not to pay attention.
Every year since I was five-years-old I would get the usual school supplies: pens, pencils, notebooks, calculator. I secretly loved school, even up to my last year in college. It was the idea of newness, a fresh start, anticipation, and all those cliques. It wasn’t just the social aspect – yes, new clothes made you feel like a rock star; but it was also the studiousness of it all. I felt motivated and older, more mature.
Now, I can’t get that feeling any more. I suppose I could stay enrolled in school like it’s my job, but I couldn’t afford that. I could also crash classrooms, kind of like a wedding, but weirder.
But in the end, I feel better when I can look at my diploma and think, I will never have algebra homework EVER again.
Although I am “finished” with school, I can offer advice to those who still have to pay attention to the back-to-school signs. Keep in mind that I am not an expert, only a post-student citizen with personal experience.

AGE & WISDOM
Let’s start with the little guys – the ones who are ready to move past eating glue (but still secretly do underneath their desks). Yes, I’m talking to the junior high student. You probably think you know a lot, and you do. But you will never know more than the authority figures above you.
With age comes wisdom. The adults around you have made the same mistakes you have. Just do what your teachers, counselors, coaches, etc. tell you to do. You’ll be happy to learn that at a university, there is more of a collaborative learning process. Professors treat you more like a peer with the understanding you have a sincere interest in education. For now, deal with being treated “like a kid,” because at college, the expectations are a little higher. The more mature you are now, the more communication you’ll have with your professors – and maybe get an invite to grab a beer and discuss philosophy class with them.
Finally, pay attention to your school work. I cannot stress how important it is to know what you’re learning. The day I found out my seventh grade math teacher didn’t grade our homework, was the day I doomed myself to stumble in math – a subject I hate the most, today.
I actually cried after one intermediate algebra test my sophomore year at Northwestern Michigan College.
To the high school student: This is not the climax of your life. Don’t let it be. You’ve heard the old adage: “High school is the best years of your life.” I have seen this firsthand, coming from a graduating class of 52. Some of my classmates never saw past the town borders -- they only saw memories.
Enjoy high school as just another stage of life. You have great friends now, but you will meet some of the most amazing and interesting people on a college campus. Don’t be texting your high school friends at the back of philosophy class. Your future roommate could be sitting right next to you.

HOME OR AWAY?
If you’re like I was when I graduated high school, you probably want to attend a college as far away from home as possible. Or, it may be the other extreme and you want to stay as close to home as your parents will sanely allow you. There are disadvantages to both.
Ask yourself why you want to get away or stay close. Are you seeking independence? Do you have a high school sweetheart? Are you on parole? (Kidding.) Geographic location should be one of the last reasons on your list to pick a school, unless travel time, budget, psychological/physical health play into it. Otherwise, you’re only setting yourself up for trouble when you pick a school based on palm trees.
I personally wanted to get away. But, finances trumped independence and I attended Northwestern Michigan College; a 45-minute opportunity for my parents to visit me.
Plus, going to a community college allowed me to get the basic credits out of the way before committing to a degree.
Speaking of commitment, I changed my mind three times. I heard somewhere that the average college student changes his or her major three to four times, so I was right in the middle of normal. You will be too.
However, I hope to make that process a little easier by offering a few tips in that area:
1. Pay attention to what you’re good at. In The Dark Knight, the Joker says something along the lines of, “Don’t do something you’re good at for free.” You can be successful if you practice and care about what you’re doing. I’m getting paid to write my thoughts down right now, so apparently I’m good enough to get a check!
2. On the same token, pay attention to the classifieds. Our economy isn’t exactly demanding writers at the moment. Had I noticed the demand in the medical field, I would probably have added another two to my 19 years of schooling in order to get a well-paying job.
3. Had I paid attention to my math homework in seventh grade, I probably would be in medical school!
4. Think about where you’ll be living in the next five to 10 years. If you want to live in a big city like Chicago or New York, you have boundless options. If you’re like me and want to stay in the little town that grew on you, your options may be a bit limited.

My sister Katie graduated from Grand Valley State University two years before I did. She earned her Bachelors in Secondary Education and is currently working on her elementary education certification – a Masters.
She is also recently married, and settled on living in Traverse City, a move that is not conducive to her degree. Like many Michigan teachers, she is unemployed.
“I may not be employed but I’m happy where we live. We will never move out of the area because no matter what, we will probably spend our entire life trying to find a way to come back,” says Katie.
So, if you have a Bachelors Degree in Psychology and discover there really isn’t much you can do with that in Northern Michigan, you may want to consider changing your major or location. By the way, what can you do with a Bachelors Degree in Psychology?

STICK WITH IT
When I started my freshman year of college, I woke up an hour early to do my hair, put on my makeup, and pick out what I was going to wear. By the end of that year, I was rolling out of bed five minutes before my first class, heading out the door in my sweats (the unofficial college student uniform).
You’ll learn that sleep is more valuable than appearance. You will have long nights of cramming and moments of sacrificing a night out – whatever it takes.
The important thing is that you have the determination to finish college and get your degree. There will be tears about unfair teachers and holes in the financial aid system. But guess what, college isn’t the hardest thing you’ll have to endure.
I recently saw a bumper sticker of a young man proudly holding a diploma. Underneath the drawing it said, “Congratulations on getting through the easiest part of life.”
College is meant to prepare you for whatever the future holds. It’s a time to grow and learn. It’s the hand that guides you out the door slowly. It’s your chance to explore your independence and have a little fun along the way.
Ultimately, college is the climax of your 12 + years of education. Afterwards, you’ll be looking at back-to-school signs that now read, “So what are you going to do now?”
 
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