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Letters 08-31-2015

Inalienable Rights This is a response to the “No More State Theatre” in your August 24th edition. I think I will not be the only response to this pathetic and narrow-minded letter that seems rather out of place in the northern Michigan that I know. To think we will not be getting your 25 cents for the movie you refused to see, but more importantly we will be without your “two cents” on your thoughts of a marriage at the State Theatre...

Enthusiastically Democratic Since I was one of the approximately 160 people present at when Senator Debbie Stabenow spoke on August 14 in Charlevoix, I was surprised to read in a letter to Northern Express that there was a “rather muted” response to Debbie’s announcement that she has endorsed Hillary Clinton for president...

Not Hurting I surely think the State Theatre will survive not having the homophobic presence of Colleen Smith and her family attend any matinees. I think “Ms.” Smith might also want to make sure that any medical personnel, bank staff, grocery store staff, waiters and/or waitress, etc. are not homosexual before accepting any service or product from them...

Stay Home I did not know whether to laugh or cry when I read the letter of the extremely homophobic, “disgusted” writer. She now refuses to patronize the State Theatre because she evidently feels that its confines have been poisoned by the gay wedding ceremony held there...

Keep Away In response to Colleen Smith of Cadillac who refused to bring her family to the State Theatre because there was a gay wedding there: Keep your 25 cents and your family out of Traverse City...

Celebrating Moore And A Theatre I was 10 years old when I had the privilege to see my first film at the State Theatre. I will never forget that experience. The screen was almost the size of my bedroom I shared with my older sister. The bursting sounds made me believe I was part of the film...

Outdated Thinking This letter is in response to Colleen Smith. She made public her choice to no longer go to the State Theater due to the fact that “some homosexuals” got married there. I’m not outraged by her choice; we don’t need any more hateful, self-righteous bigots in our town. She can keep her 25 cents...

Mackinac Pipeline Must Be Shut Down Crude oil flowing through Enbridge’s 60-yearold pipeline beneath the Mackinac Straits and the largest collection of fresh water on the planet should be a serious concern for every resident of the USA and Canada. Enbridge has a very “accident” prone track record...

Your Rights To Colleen, who wrote about the State Theatre: Let me thank you for sharing your views; I think most of us are well in support of the first amendment, because as you know- it gives everyone the opportunity to express their opinions. I also wanted to thank Northern Express for not shutting down these types of letters right at the source but rather giving the community a platform for education...

No Role Model [Fascinating Person from last week’s issue] Jada quoted: “I want to be a role model for girls who are interested in being in the outdoors.” I enjoy being in the outdoors, but I don’t want to kill animals for trophy...

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Facing up to Facebook

Robert Downes - January 26th, 2009
Facing Up to Facebook
I got a new Facebook account over the holidays and with it came an unpleasant surprise: not a single friend from my high school or college days is a member.
Jim, Tom, Carol, Gary, Mary Jo, Ross, Linda, Anne, where are you? It’s funny how you lose track of your old high school pals through the years and then get nostalgic for them, forgetting the time they put snot in your Coke or whatever.
A bigger shock was going to Facebook’s list of members from Royal Oak High, class of ‘70, and finding that there are only 22 of us who are members. And this is out of a class that had something like 800 graduates. By contrast, the class of 2000 has 134 members, and the class of 2006 has 223.
So I feel lucky to be in with a much younger demographic than my lost cronies, who are probably all asleep in front of old CSI reruns somewhere...
I first heard about Facebook from a group of heavily-addicted college kids about a year and a half ago.
The social networking site was launched in February, 2004 as a hobby project by Harvard student Mark Zuckerberg and some of his classmates. It‘s claimed that Zuckerberg ripped off the best elements of Facebook from another student project called ConnectU, which resulted in a lawsuit back in the mid-’00s. But the suit was dismissed, and today ConnectU is toast, while Zuckerberg will soon be richer than Bill Gates and Warren Buffett sandwiched in with Steve Jobs, owing to the popularity of the site.
Initially, you had to be a college student to join Facebook.com. Starting at Harvard, the membership was extended to Stanford, Yale, and then millions of college students signed on.
That’s why Facebook members tend to be younger, typically having something like 900 ‘friends‘ on their pages. But I’ve noticed in recent weeks that Facebook seems to be spreading like wildfire among those of us in the Gen-X and Baby Boom generations. I send and receive friend requests every day, and it’s almost spooky watching this thing grow... kind of like the Andromeda Strain.
At first, I didn‘t believe the Facebook hype because other social networking sites seem so lame. MySpace, for instance, is a mess -- its webpages tend to look like a teenager’s bedroom, crammed with ads and clutter (no surprise, it’s teenagers who tend to be the biggest fans of MySpace). Then there’s a site called classmates.com, which makes you pay for access to old school chums that you probably never want to hear from again. No thanks.
But Facebook is clean and direct while providing an ingenious web of connections. You end up being ‘friends‘ with people you barely know, and also with people that you didn’t think you even wanted to know -- it’s one big online meet-and-greet. Plus, it’s free and a lot of fun, wondering whatever happened to old whatsherface, the hot chick you dated back in ‘86; or if your crazy Uncle Joe is a member. I‘ve made connections with people around the world, including a friend from Egypt who offers his opinion on the carnage in Gaza.
“People write the dumbest stuff on Facebook,” a friend says. “Who cares?” Ironically, she tends to be the queen of small talk herself, but is puzzled by messages such as: “Sally is frying eggs for dinner,” or “Jim-Bob is taking a well-deserved bath.”
Perhaps we tend to choose our words carefully on Facebook because there may be a great many people reading them. It may be the greatest foot-in-mouth medium ever invented. I’ve had to remind myself not to write anything after a glass of wine or two because the results tend to be dumber than usual.
But for the same reason, Facebook also reminds us to be more civil with our words and less gossipy. Suddenly, it no longer seems wise to slag Joe Blow when, after all, he’s your new friend on Facebook.
It’s not all good. One can only imagine that Facebook will have an bad effect on magazines, which are essentially time-wasters meant to fill up the spare minutes of the day. If you’re fiddling around with your Facebook (or your Wii game or your iPod), chances are you simply don’t have time to read Time or Vanity Fair. I hope that Northern Express dodges that bullet...
The other day, most of us at the Express watched the inauguration on our computers via the live-stream hook-up between Facebook and CNN. It served as a reminder that great changes are indeed before us -- both with the presidency of Barack Obama and with technology that seems to be shifting the ground beneath our feet. Does anyone doubt that Facebook -- or some social networking site like it -- will have as great an impact on the 21st century as did the automobile in the last 100 years?
Oops, time to go. Got to check and see if any of my old high school friends have signed on yet... and write something inane on the ‘book. lol...

Check out Rick Coates’ article on the Facebook revolution in an upcoming issue of the Express.
 
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