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Letters 10-27-2014

Paging Doctor Dan: The doctor’s promise to repeal Obamacare reminds me of the frantic restaurant owner hurrying to install an exhaust fan after the kitchen burns down. He voted 51 times to replace the ACA law; a colossal waste of money and time. It’s here to stay and he has nothing to replace it.

Evolution Is Real Science: Breathtaking inanity. That was the term used by Judge John Jones III in his elegant evisceration of creationist arguments attempting to equate it to evolutionary theory in his landmark Kitzmiller vs. Dover Board of Education decision in 2005.

U.S. No Global Police: Steven Tuttle in the October 13 issue is correct: our military, under the leadership of the President (not the Congress) is charged with protecting the country, its citizens, and its borders. It is not charged with  performing military missions in other places in the world just because they have something we want (oil), or we don’t like their form of government, or we want to force them to live by the UN or our rules.

Graffiti: Art Or Vandalism?: I walk the [Grand Traverse] Commons frequently and sometimes I include the loop up to the cistern just to go and see how the art on the cistern has evolved. Granted there is the occasional gross image or word but generally there is a flurry of color.

NMEAC Snubbed: Northern Michigan Environmental Action Council (NMEAC) is the Grand Traverse region’s oldest grassroots environmental advocacy organization. Preserving the environment through citizen action and education is our mission.

Vote, Everyone: Election Day on November 4 is fast approaching, and now is the time to make a commitment to vote. You may be getting sick of the political ads on TV, but instead, be grateful that you live in a free country with open elections. Take the time to learn about the candidates by contacting your county parties and doing research.

Do Fluoride Research: Hydrofluorosilicic acid, H2SiF6, is a byproduct from the production of fertilizer. This liquid, not environmentally safe, is scrubbed from the chimney of the fertilizer plant, put into containers, and shipped. Now it is a ‘product’ added to the public drinking water.

Meet The Homeless: As someone who volunteers for a Traverse City organization that works with homeless people, I am appalled at what is happening at the meetings regarding the homeless shelter. The people fighting this shelter need to get to know some homeless families. They have the wrong idea about who the homeless are.

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Ring those bells/ To Have & To Hold Bridal

Erin Cowell - January 25th, 2010
Ring those bells:Optimism boosts business at To Have and to Hold
By Erin Crowell
For the owners of To Have and to Hold Bridal Boutique in Traverse City,
2010 is looking like a busy year.
“A lot of people put their wedding off until this year,” says co-owner
Toni Javin Liles. “Because of the economy at the end of ’08 and ’09,
things were just uncertain. People felt like they needed to wait until
things were safer, secure. Everyone just kind of pulled back and slowed
down.”
Regardless of the economy, Liles—along with sister-in-law Janice Javin and
mother Terri Javin—knows there will always be a demand for weddings.
Just like marriage, it’s simply a matter of riding the ups and downs and
adapting to change.

ALL ABOUT THE GREEN
“In terms of wedding trends, a lot of it is tied to the economy. Many are
looking at not-so-fancy engagements,” says Liles. “A lot of weddings are
still very elegant, but a lot more on the simple and fun side.”
Other trends include longer engagements, brides spreading the purchases
over a period of time, like buying the wedding gown one month, booking the
hall another, says Liles.
And it’s all about the green, including the environment.
“Really, we’ve seen, especially up here, the green idea. The whole idea of
eco-friendliness. We have some dresses made out of cotton. It’s more of an
organic material, less synthetics. They’re comfortable, but they blow you
away. They don’t look like a little white t-shirt or anything.”
To Have and To Hold features bridal gowns and bridesmaids dresses from top
designers, including Jim Hjelm and Edric Woo. It’s the only bridal
boutique in the area that carries Hjelm and Watters Brides.
“I was familiar with the two, and they are both well-respected,” says
Liles. “We wanted to find up-to-date and affordable designers. We’ve gone
through a couple different lines that just didn’t work out, either because
of reliability or customer service. They have to be up to our standards.”

ROLL WITH IT
Liles got started in the wedding industry on a whim when she and her
husband moved back home after living out West.
“I had worked in the corporate world for a long time,” says Liles. “I was
the director of human resources for a company and I didn’t want to
continue doing what I was doing.”
With a little experience helping friends plan their weddings, Liles
presented the idea of a bridal boutique to her mother and sister-in-law.
“I kind of roped them in,” she says.
To Have and to Hold opened in September 2004, just under a year after the
initial idea. Since then, they have stayed busy providing gowns, dresses
and emotional support to brides all over the area.
“My mom is kind of the constant. She’s a comforting figure for (the
brides),” says Liles.
At one point, Liles needed comfort when a bridesmaid’s dress shipped to
Italy had failed to make it through customs.
She found comfort through an unlikely source.
“My heart fell to the ground when I found out it was stuck, so I called
the bride and she was just so sweet and was calming me down,” says Liles.
“You always hear about the crazed brides and bridezillas, and she was the
opposite. She made me feel so good.”
Liles says she enjoys sharing that story, reminding people what the
wedding business is all about.
“I just love the brides that understand things happen, even with your
wedding. Life goes on. When you just roll with it, it makes the experience
so much more enjoyable.”

To Have and to Hold Bridal Boutique is located at 516 E. Front Street in
Traverse City. Store hours are Tuesday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m.; Wed. & Thurs., 11
a.m.-7 p.m.; Friday, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; and on Saturday by appointment only.
Visit them online at www.ToHaveAndToHoldTC.com.

 
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