Letters 10-24-2016

It’s Obama’s 1984 Several editions ago I concluded a short letter to the editor with an ominous rhetorical flourish: “Welcome to George Orwell’s 1984 and the grand opening of the Federal Department of Truth!” At the time I am sure most of the readers laughed off my comments as right-wing hyperbole. Shame on you for doubting me...

Gun Bans Don’t Work It is said that mass violence only happens in the USA. A lone gunman in a rubber boat, drifted ashore at a popular resort in Tunisia and randomly shot and killed 38 mostly British and Irish tourists. Tunisian gun laws, which are among the most restrictive in the world, didn’t stop this mass slaughter. And in January 2015, two armed men killed 11 and wounded 11 others in an attack on the French satirical magazine Charlie Hebdo. French gun laws didn’t stop these assassins...

Scripps’ Good Deed No good deed shall go unpunished! When Dan Scripps was the 101st District State Representative, he introduced legislation to prevent corporations from contaminating (e.g. fracking) or depleting (e.g. Nestle) Michigan’s water table for corporate profit. There are no property lines in the water table, and many of us depend on private wells for abundant, safe, clean water. In the subsequent election, Dan’s opponents ran a negative campaign almost solely on the misrepresentation that Dan’s good deed was a government takeover of your private water well...

Political Definitions As the time to vote draws near it’s a good time to check into what you stand for. According to Dictionary.com the meanings for liberal and conservative are as follows:

Liberal: Favorable to progress or reform as in political or religious affairs.

Conservative: Disposed to preserve existing conditions, institutions, etc., or to restore traditions and limit change...

Voting Takes A Month? Hurricane Matthew hit the Florida coast Oct. 6, over three weeks before Election Day. Bob Ross (Oct. 17th issue) posits that perhaps evacuation orders from Governor Scott may have had political motivations to diminish turnout and seems to praise Hillary Clinton’s call for Gov. Scott to extend Florida’s voter registration deadline due to evacuations...

Clinton Foundation Facts Does the Clinton Foundation really spend a mere 10 percent (per Mike Pence) or 20 percent (per Reince Priebus) of its money on charity? Not true. Charity Watch gives it an A rating (the same as it gives the NRA Foundation) and says it spends 88 percent on charitable causes, and 12 percent on overhead. Here is the source of the misunderstanding: The Foundation does give only a small percentage of its money to charitable organizations, but it spends far more money directly running a number of programs...

America Needs Change Trump supports our constitution, will appoint judges that will keep our freedoms safe. He supports the partial-birth ban; Hillary voted against it. Regardless of how you feel about Trump, critical issues are at stake. Trump will increase national security, monitor refugee admissions, endorse our vital military forces while fighting ISIS. Vice-presidential candidate Mike Pence will be an intelligent asset for the country. Hillary wants open borders, increased government regulation, and more demilitarization at a time when we need strong military defenses...

My Process For No I will be voting “no” on Prop 3 because I am supportive of the process that is in place to review and approve developments. I was on the Traverse City Planning Commission in the 1990s and gained an appreciation for all of the work that goes into a review. The staff reviews the project and makes a recommendation. The developer then makes a presentation, and fellow commissioners and the public can ask questions and make comments. By the end of the process, I knew how to vote for a project, up or down. This process then repeats itself at the City Commission...

Regarding Your Postcard If you received a “Vote No” postcard from StandUp TC, don’t believe their lies. Prop 3 is not illegal. It won’t cost city taxpayers thousands of dollars in legal bills or special elections. Prop 3 is about protecting our downtown -- not Munson, NMC or the Commons -- from a future of ugly skyscrapers that will diminish the very character of our downtown...

Vote Yes It has been suggested that a recall or re-election of current city staff and Traverse City Commission would work better than Prop 3. I disagree. A recall campaign is the most divisive, costly type of election possible. Prop 3, when passed, will allow all city residents an opportunity to vote on any proposed development over 60 feet tall at no cost to the taxpayer...

Yes Vote Explained A “yes” vote on Prop 3 will give Traverse City the right to vote on developments over 60 feet high. It doesn’t require votes on every future building, as incorrectly stated by a previous letter writer. If referendums are held during general elections, taxpayers pay nothing...

Beware Trump When the country you love have have served for 33 years is threatened, you have an obligation and a duty to speak out. Now is the time for all Americans to speak out against a possible Donald Trump presidency. During the past year Trump has been exposed as a pathological liar, a demagogue and a person who is totally unfit to assume the presidency of our already great country...

Picture Worth 1,000 Words Nobody disagrees with the need for affordable housing or that a certain level of density is dollar smart for TC. The issue is the proposed solution. If you haven’t already seen the architect’s rendition for the site, please Google “Pine Street Development Traverse City”...

Living Wage, Not Tall Buildings Our community deserves better than the StandUp TC “vote no” arguments. They are not truthful. Their yard signs say: “More Housing. Less Red Tape. Vote like you want your kids to live here.” The truth: More housing, but for whom? At what price..

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Ring those bells/ To Have & To Hold Bridal

Erin Cowell - January 25th, 2010
Ring those bells:Optimism boosts business at To Have and to Hold
By Erin Crowell
For the owners of To Have and to Hold Bridal Boutique in Traverse City,
2010 is looking like a busy year.
“A lot of people put their wedding off until this year,” says co-owner
Toni Javin Liles. “Because of the economy at the end of ’08 and ’09,
things were just uncertain. People felt like they needed to wait until
things were safer, secure. Everyone just kind of pulled back and slowed
Regardless of the economy, Liles—along with sister-in-law Janice Javin and
mother Terri Javin—knows there will always be a demand for weddings.
Just like marriage, it’s simply a matter of riding the ups and downs and
adapting to change.

“In terms of wedding trends, a lot of it is tied to the economy. Many are
looking at not-so-fancy engagements,” says Liles. “A lot of weddings are
still very elegant, but a lot more on the simple and fun side.”
Other trends include longer engagements, brides spreading the purchases
over a period of time, like buying the wedding gown one month, booking the
hall another, says Liles.
And it’s all about the green, including the environment.
“Really, we’ve seen, especially up here, the green idea. The whole idea of
eco-friendliness. We have some dresses made out of cotton. It’s more of an
organic material, less synthetics. They’re comfortable, but they blow you
away. They don’t look like a little white t-shirt or anything.”
To Have and To Hold features bridal gowns and bridesmaids dresses from top
designers, including Jim Hjelm and Edric Woo. It’s the only bridal
boutique in the area that carries Hjelm and Watters Brides.
“I was familiar with the two, and they are both well-respected,” says
Liles. “We wanted to find up-to-date and affordable designers. We’ve gone
through a couple different lines that just didn’t work out, either because
of reliability or customer service. They have to be up to our standards.”

Liles got started in the wedding industry on a whim when she and her
husband moved back home after living out West.
“I had worked in the corporate world for a long time,” says Liles. “I was
the director of human resources for a company and I didn’t want to
continue doing what I was doing.”
With a little experience helping friends plan their weddings, Liles
presented the idea of a bridal boutique to her mother and sister-in-law.
“I kind of roped them in,” she says.
To Have and to Hold opened in September 2004, just under a year after the
initial idea. Since then, they have stayed busy providing gowns, dresses
and emotional support to brides all over the area.
“My mom is kind of the constant. She’s a comforting figure for (the
brides),” says Liles.
At one point, Liles needed comfort when a bridesmaid’s dress shipped to
Italy had failed to make it through customs.
She found comfort through an unlikely source.
“My heart fell to the ground when I found out it was stuck, so I called
the bride and she was just so sweet and was calming me down,” says Liles.
“You always hear about the crazed brides and bridezillas, and she was the
opposite. She made me feel so good.”
Liles says she enjoys sharing that story, reminding people what the
wedding business is all about.
“I just love the brides that understand things happen, even with your
wedding. Life goes on. When you just roll with it, it makes the experience
so much more enjoyable.”

To Have and to Hold Bridal Boutique is located at 516 E. Front Street in
Traverse City. Store hours are Tuesday, 11 a.m.-5 p.m.; Wed. & Thurs., 11
a.m.-7 p.m.; Friday, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.; and on Saturday by appointment only.
Visit them online at www.ToHaveAndToHoldTC.com.

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