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Letters 08-31-2015

Inalienable Rights This is a response to the “No More State Theatre” in your August 24th edition. I think I will not be the only response to this pathetic and narrow-minded letter that seems rather out of place in the northern Michigan that I know. To think we will not be getting your 25 cents for the movie you refused to see, but more importantly we will be without your “two cents” on your thoughts of a marriage at the State Theatre...

Enthusiastically Democratic Since I was one of the approximately 160 people present at when Senator Debbie Stabenow spoke on August 14 in Charlevoix, I was surprised to read in a letter to Northern Express that there was a “rather muted” response to Debbie’s announcement that she has endorsed Hillary Clinton for president...

Not Hurting I surely think the State Theatre will survive not having the homophobic presence of Colleen Smith and her family attend any matinees. I think “Ms.” Smith might also want to make sure that any medical personnel, bank staff, grocery store staff, waiters and/or waitress, etc. are not homosexual before accepting any service or product from them...

Stay Home I did not know whether to laugh or cry when I read the letter of the extremely homophobic, “disgusted” writer. She now refuses to patronize the State Theatre because she evidently feels that its confines have been poisoned by the gay wedding ceremony held there...

Keep Away In response to Colleen Smith of Cadillac who refused to bring her family to the State Theatre because there was a gay wedding there: Keep your 25 cents and your family out of Traverse City...

Celebrating Moore And A Theatre I was 10 years old when I had the privilege to see my first film at the State Theatre. I will never forget that experience. The screen was almost the size of my bedroom I shared with my older sister. The bursting sounds made me believe I was part of the film...

Outdated Thinking This letter is in response to Colleen Smith. She made public her choice to no longer go to the State Theater due to the fact that “some homosexuals” got married there. I’m not outraged by her choice; we don’t need any more hateful, self-righteous bigots in our town. She can keep her 25 cents...

Mackinac Pipeline Must Be Shut Down Crude oil flowing through Enbridge’s 60-yearold pipeline beneath the Mackinac Straits and the largest collection of fresh water on the planet should be a serious concern for every resident of the USA and Canada. Enbridge has a very “accident” prone track record...

Your Rights To Colleen, who wrote about the State Theatre: Let me thank you for sharing your views; I think most of us are well in support of the first amendment, because as you know- it gives everyone the opportunity to express their opinions. I also wanted to thank Northern Express for not shutting down these types of letters right at the source but rather giving the community a platform for education...

No Role Model [Fascinating Person from last week’s issue] Jada quoted: “I want to be a role model for girls who are interested in being in the outdoors.” I enjoy being in the outdoors, but I don’t want to kill animals for trophy...

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A Mennnonite memeoir

Erin Crowell - March 1st, 2010
A Mennonite Memoir
By Erin Crowell
On the heels of its first comedy festival, Northern Michigan will get
another dose of humor when the National Writers Series presents “An
Evening with Rhoda Janzen,” on March 5, at the City Opera House, in
downtown Traverse City.
Janzen will present her humorous and candid memoir, “Mennonite in a
Little Black Dress,” the story of how—at the age of 43—she returned to
her conservative childhood Mennonite community after a 25-year absence
in order to recover from two traumatic experiences: a car accident
that left her with a cracked patella, two broken ribs, a fractured
clavicle and a concussion; and a divorce from a man who left her for
“Bob the Guy from Gay.com.”
The former poet laureate of UCLA, now an assistant professor of
English at Hope College in Holland, shared a phone conversation with
the Northern Express on what it’s like growing up Mennonite and
learning to handle the tough stuff with humor.
NE: You take these horrible situations and turn them into humor that
is just hilarious. Would you call it a coping mechanism?
Rhoda Janzen: I think humor is a coping mechanism, and for me it’s one
of the ways that I could work toward gratitude and clarity; but in
terms of developing it for literary style, I’m just now beginning to
do this. Since I’m new to memoir writing and everything outside of
poetry, it’s kind of a process. I’m sort of investigating.

NE: Would you call the memoir a long and tough process?
Janzen: No, actually, you know what? It was strangely easy. I wrote
the bulk of it in one month, sitting in my parent’s gazebo; and I just
wrote all day long. I had my little ritual. I ran six miles, took a
shower, went out to the gazebo and then boom, suddenly it’s dinner
time.

NE: If you had a name for it, what would you call your style of writing?
Janzen: In the memoir? I would call it wry humor.

NE: Any particular reason?
Janzen: Well, ‘wry’” in the sense that I think things are always
funnier if you’re aware of the largest implications of self and
culture. So it’s not a slapstick humor. I’m not sticking my head in
the sand because I don’t want to confront my life. Through thoughtful
confrontation with your issues in your life, you’ll find humor.

NE: Would you say you get your humor from your mother? She seems to
have this oblivious innocence and it comes off really funny.
(In the book, Janzen’s mother suggests she start dating again and
offers the notion of dating Waldemar – Janzen’s first cousin. Janzen’s
mother defends her position saying, “I think that the Lord appreciates
a man on a tractor more than a man smoking marijuana in his pajamas. I
know I do.”)
Janzen: (laughs) you know both of my parents have a great sense of
humor and I think they modeled that for us.

NE: Obviously you live a more secular life these days. Are there
still certain Mennonite principles that you still follow?
Janzen: Yeah I do, the Mennonite theology is very attractive to me.
And, I also feel as the Mennonites do – that if you want to promote
your own spiritual growth, you need to make some choices between how
you live and what you value. I deliberately don’t expose myself to
violence. I don’t like watching violent movies. I do things that
promote what I think is spiritually healthy: meditation, exercise,
things like that.

NE: What did your parents think of the book?
Janzen: Well, my mom read it before it went to press and she made some
suggestions, which I took, and she is cool with it. She is proud of me
and thinks I’m operating fully in my skill set and she’s proud of me
for that reason. She’s a little surprised at some of the controversial
reactions of the Mennonite community. When I asked my father, he said
he was proud too. He laughed, he cried.

NE: What do you mean by controversy?
Janzen: Well, it’s a memoir and so there’s going to be all kinds of
reactions. I know some Mennonites who think the humor is disrespectful
or some people who are horrified that I would publicly talk about an
issue like divorce. One of the women at my mom’s church said, “Well,
we certainly won’t be putting her book in the church library with
language like that.” There have been all kinds of reactions.

Rhoda Janzen will be the second featured speaker at the 2010 National
Writers Series. She will appear at the City Opera House, in Traverse
City, on March 5. Doors open at 6 p.m. with the event starting at 7
p.m. Following the presentation—which includes an on-stage interview
with series co-founder and New York Times best-selling author Doug
Stanton—there will be a reception with a cash bar, appetizers and book
signing. Advance tickets are $15 for adults, $10 for seniors. Tickets
at the door are $20. Cost for students is $5. For more info, visit
nationalwritersseries.com.

 
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